Teach Your Girl

TD
TD
Jul 23, 2017 · 2 min read

Teach your girl to jump fences and her world will know no boundaries,

teach her to sneak out in the dead of the night with no fear of the bogeymen who have never tried to hurt her, but give her the strength to kick them as hard as she can in the groin on the off chance that they do.

Teach her to run until her legs can’t carry her anymore, and when that happens, to walk a little further.

Teach her to walk like she owns the ground when she steps on it instead of apologizing for the air she breathes —
teach her to dance on fallen trees that make bridges in the woods as if her hiking boots were ballet shoes, because bird calls and wind-whispers make music too.

Teach her that no matter what anyone says falling off cliffs isn’t the worst thing in the world, not climbing in the first place is. And if she can’t reach the final foothold lift her up on your shoulders the way you do on the Fourth of July, and teach her that shortness need never be weakness when you can stand on the shoulders of giants.

Teach her to dig in the backyard for hidden treasure and make booby traps like the kid in Home Alone, take prisoners in Capture the Flag and use mud for war paint on her cheeks.

Teach her to wear a seatbelt, yes, but teach her too how to do 110 on the open road, whooping as you feel up big sky country with a steering wheel and tires.

Teach her that setting fires is about more than making s’mores, and when the night comes, the fire flickers, and you hear her take off for the woods without you, you’ll know you’ve taught her well — because the world is this girl’s oyster, as much as it was ever any boy’s.

TD

TD

Developer. Artist. Yogi. Shenaniganizer. Interested in the idea of creative machines, and the intersection of art and tech.

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