you comment about us being NOT discriminated against discriminates against “real women” is just crap. discrimination is being forced to NOT use what is proper, or similar treatment. “real women” as you call them, have the right to use the same showers, they might CHOSE not to, that is THEIR CHOICE it is NOT forced on them, that is freedom, not discrimination (you might want to open a dictionary once and a while, you can learn useful stuff there).
i am not against alternate options being AVAILABLE, but NOT FORCED. if someone has an issue, they can use the alternate option, whether they are trans, cis, lesbian, straight, whatever. hate is NOT a substitute for law, and we are a nation of laws, not religion.