Thoughts of not feeling useful come from not feeling like you belong! Not knowing where you belong!

Terry Dika Volchoff
Aug 9, 2017 · 2 min read

You heal yourself by connecting back to where you came from and then you feel useful as you find your place again, your place of origin.

This longing, is the love you do feel for your family,if it’s not visible at the surface/consciously it’s felt at the level of your soul and it is acted out in your life.

You maybe independent and self sufficient and these are good qualities when they are in balance.When they are used to protect you from your soul’s deep longing and need to feel connected they leave a void of loneliness.

These two pulls inside of you for the belonging and the desire to be independent can make one feel purposeless, lost, confused and useless.

You can’t love yourself and feel useful if you don’t feel rooted.

Your roots are with your parents and your ancestors.

Life came through them to you.

When you connect with your roots,you will feel the strength of where you came from supporting you forward into your future
You then feel solid in your identity, as you know where you belong and honor were you came from.

With everyone’s dignity restored, respect for yourself and all your are connected to can flow again with order. The mind will rest and lay down it’s tumultuous demands.You have restored order and now life can come to you and you are able to meet it with a relaxed energy that meets joy.

Are you able to ask for help or will you continue wearing your camouflage of independence and do it all alone?

Terry Dika Volchoff
Transformational Catalyst
Success Begins and Ends on the Inside

PS.Ready to become balanced in your independence and connection? Ready to feel purposeful and love your life? You deserve that, don’t you think? Reach out to me by PM. so we can discuss working together one on one!
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