If you love someone, you dedicate yourself, you pour affection, you be honest, you love your best. Just like growing a plant, or a garden — you put the seed of love in your heart, you pour in your affection and dedication, under the soil of truth, trust, and honesty, and in time, that garden will grow to its fullest, fragrant, beautiful garden of love in your heart that you aspired to have with someone.

Then you had just grown yourself a real love, the one you’d love.