CRIME AGAINST MEN?Wait..What?
Yup.You read it right.This is the topic which is rarely touched,not only in India but globally.Don’t believe me? have a look yourself.
August 2015,a post went viral on facebook.It had the photo of a biker who was accused of molesting a DU girl.Our society,still trapped in that “Abala naari”(helpless women) concept,stood in girl’s support with a few bollywood actors and social activists blowing the internet with their anger and the incident soon became an urgent issue for the authorities.The boy was caught,jailed and publically shamed and what not.Feminist community celebrated it victory,newspapers read”Brave girl uses social media to corner the molester”,authorities announced cash prize worth Rs.50,000 to the girl and T.V. channels presented her as an epitome of a modern woman.
BUT THINGS TOOK U-TURN
A pool of people came forward to prove that it was the girl who first started misbehaving with the boy which even authorities conformed
If you still have no idea about what I am talking about,this incident happened in Tilak Nagar.
I know , I know.You will ask me “DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY CASES OF RAPE AND MOLESTATION ARE FILED IN DELHI ALONE?”
Oh dear, Let me ask you first “DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY OF THEM ARE FALSE?”
53.2% .YES,have a look yourself
A trend among women filing false rape cases stands exposed with the Delhi Commission of Women (DCW) revealing shocking…indiatoday.intoday.in
Even Delhi Commission of women admits that 53.2% rape cases are false.
In fact ,Most of the cases are registered by the girls who seek revenge from their ex after break up,confirms DCW.
If you are convicted in a rape case, you have to serve rest of your life in jail where other prisoners will also be there to make your life worse than death but if you are innocent,you are RESPECTFULLY RELEASE, which gets a bit ironical as you are still not respected in the society.
The Society Just Doesn’t Give A Second Chance To Live.
Oh, and that madam who accused you, just walks off.
LAW AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE-THE ULTIMATE WEAPON
Suppose you’re a girl.Your brother has, somehow married a pretty liar with a smaller heart and big ego.Within a few days of marriage,she goes back to her parent’s home and files a case of domestic violence against your whole family.Within 24 hrs, police arrests your bro,mom and dad and jail them until they prove their innocence(which usually takes many days)
CONSEQUENCE :Mental harassment →depression →hate against women
Men also face abuse in marriage.But,they just prefer not running away and filing for divorce because if they do, they lose access to their children and also,they will have to give a large cut of their income to their partner after a long court case given the insensitive attitude of India Judiciary,especially towards men.
WHO IS TO BLAME?
I don’t know.Whenever there is a dispute between a man and a woman, even I take the woman’s side.Should I blame myself? or Should I blame a group of people who are highly motivated but poorly guided? People who just keep spreading the word that all men are demons (except their fathers and brothers,of course).
Equality means same rewards and same punishments.Sometimes women get less rewards and sometimes men get worse punishments.This world has never been a perfect place.This is what we need to put in our tiny brain.Nothing is as simple as black and white. Everything comes in the shades of grey.Just like all men are not RAM, some turn out to be RAVAN. All women are not SITA, some turn out to be SOOPNAKHA( Ravan’s sister).