Thank you for the feedback. I absolutely get where you are coming from. You’re right. But I wouldn’t get too hung up on the word “edit.” The main point comes afterward: “Gently encouraging and redirecting, without judgment and only with greatest hope for what each of you are capable of — both as individuals and as a team. Marriage should make us better people.” All healthy married couples seem to do a little healthy, non-judgmental redirection from time to time. And in a loving context, it’s well received. I do believe that marriage should make us better people. If not, why even bother with the institution at all?