You so had me, until this dangling participle. "over your own" suggests sacrifice, which can be very tricky juju. I.e. the used car salesman who insists he’s "making a sacrifice" to get you into that one-owner Camry. Or the islanders who toss their food and virgins into the billowing crater to appease their volcano god. Or every stupid-assed demand of Moses' petulent deity.
If it’s Love, then it’s what you want to do -- no sacrifice. The act is your own, over all else.