The Key to Life
Have you ever wondered if there was some special key to life? One magical answer to all of life and its problems? I think I figured it out. The key to life is, LOVE.
Love is what we are at the center of our being. Love is the universe itself, God, your higher power. Whatever religion you affiliate with, that person represents love, is love, unconditional love.
Love is such a powerful force of energy. We have seen it time and time again. Harry Potter is great example. Love overcomes evil every time. An old Disney movie, The Sword and The Stone (1963) even speaks to how great a force of nature love is and how it’s the most powerful force on earth. How many times have you heard love life and it will love you back? Or you must love yourself first before you can truly love someone else? Why do you think those sayings exist?
Think about it, if you truly loved yourself would you tolerate bad behavior in your life? Would you be in that relationship that is draining, abusive, and painful? Would you be in a job you hate? The answer to these is NO. No, you wouldn’t, BECAUSE you would love yourself enough to make sure you are happy, in happy loving, harmonious relationships, in jobs or careers that are satisfying, and surrounded by those who treat you kindly and bring you joy.
If you really loved yourself, you would be a priority! No more people pleasing because, you would know you are also important and number 1. You cannot give from an empty well. You must first be full. You must take care of yourself first before you can care for others.
Many of us put ourselves last, even forget about ourselves and our needs. You can start loving yourself more right now. It is a conscious choice. You choose to love yourself and become your best friend. Take care of yourself and show yourself compassion.
Small steps, for life is a journey to be present. You can start making healthier food choices that nourish your body. Adding some exercise into your routine or time in nature. Getting back in touch with hobbies or exploring things you enjoy and fill you up. Being aware of your inner critic and showing up for yourself with compassion as a friend would when difficulty arises. Making sure you’re getting enough sleep. Evaluating your relationships to ensure they are bringing you joy and in alignment with your values. Taking steps towards a dream or a career that will actually bring you satisfaction. Implementing boundaries where needed as your time is precious and you are important.
When you fully embrace love and love yourself first, your world opens up and sends you back so much love. Choose you, choose love!
