Published in BJ’s This or That·PinnedMember-onlyI Write Like It’s My JobLoving every minute of my new 9–5, 24/7 — It’s Sunday and I just can’t help myself. I’m making pancakes — more like burning pancakes — while searching for an image to go with my next installment of TMI, a sex Q&A I created for Sensual: An Erotic Life. I don’t know when the last time was I had…Writing3 min readWriting3 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That — The Gathering Table·PinnedMember-onlyIt’s My ToT-Day — BJI’m BJ of BJ’s ToT! The Mistress of Ceremonies, Brett Jenae — I can talk that way, can’t I? I mean, it’s my birthday after all. Let’s be clear though, in my house, I don’t just get a birthday. I take the whole damn month. The reasons for this are few but mighty: 1. I have anxiety and I am mega triggered…Introduction9 min readIntroduction9 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That — The Gathering Table·Just nowMember-onlyI Cannot Abide Snakes, Let’s Spiders InsteadIf I have to choose, slitherers are out — I have a complaint to make. Yeah, yeah, we’ve all dealt with a lot of digging deep for this challenge and I haven’t said a thing. Well, I have actually. I’ve been very sassy. Keeley loves that about me, though. Right, dopple-sister? I’ve been sassy, but have I complained? Absolutely…This Or That4 min readThis Or That4 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That — The Gathering Table·1 day agoMember-onlyI’m a Lazy Writer But I Give Some Big LoveWhat my top 5 emojis say about me — I once read that every text or message requires an emoji to set the tone for what you are saying and how you are saying it. I don’t know if that’s true, but it got stuck in my head and now I just can’t quit. I don’t want anyone reading…Challenge2 min readChallenge2 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That·1 day agoMember-onlyThis Southern Belle is Crushing TexasWriting in the state where everything is bigger — It’s January and it’s 63 degrees and sunny in Texas. It’s also Saturday, which means I’ve been sitting in the same chair for the last 8 hours doing research on Medium swaggerers who’ve written article titling tips while I avoid writing a single word. My partner is playing a video…Inspiration6 min readInspiration6 min read
Published in Breast Stories·1 day agoMember-onlyMy Boobs Don’t Care About Valentine’s DayThe gravity of the situation — My boobs don’t care about Valentine’s Day and it’s all my fault. The Hallmark holiday of love has nothing for them; they’re happy to continue living as they do beneath the caressing palms and watchful eye of their favorite human: me. Perhaps that is TMI. Maybe you don’t want to…Breasts4 min readBreasts4 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That·2 days agoMember-onlyBeauty Doesn’t Mean You Have to Rip Out Your HairOne woman’s thoughts on an old frenemy — My hair is thick. Like, thicc thick. So it may surprise many of you that I do not own a hairbrush. I’ll use my fingers to comb out a knot if one forms, but brush it, I do not. I’ve had enough skin-rippling, scalp-tearing hair-brushing for a lifetime, and all…Beauty3 min readBeauty3 min read
Published in Breast Stories·3 days agoMember-onlyFlamenco Breasts and the FOMO QueenHeel-toeing and chest-thrusting through what could have been — All to most emails are trash. I rarely get an email and say, “Ah, something useful!” Most are clickbait; they arrive in my inbox and folders to let me know that I can spend my precious Medium earnings on their offerings. If only spamming didn’t work. I wish trashy emails…Power Pose5 min readPower Pose5 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That — The Gathering Table·3 days agoMember-onlyThese Love Songs Got Me in the Feels5 Songs To Grow a Lover: Spinning the “Love and the Valentine’s Blues” Challenge — When I accepted this challenge, I didn’t realize it was about love and loss. I’ve had enough of that for one lifetime. I know, I know, I cannot escape from or avoid future loss, but I can choose not to dwell on it and spin this challenge. As I’m prone…Love4 min readLove4 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That·4 days agoMember-onlyNew Moon Wishing: Intention-Setting for Beginners“Head, shoulders, needles, toes” — Yesterday I wrote about my choice to check in with myself every morning while I connect to time and the Wheel as it turns. …Intentions6 min readIntentions6 min read
