Published in BJ’s This or That·PinnedMember-onlyI Write Like It’s My JobLoving every minute of my new 9–5, 24/7 — It’s Sunday and I just can’t help myself. I’m making pancakes — more like burning pancakes — while searching for an image to go with my next installment of TMI, a sex Q&A I created for Sensual: An Erotic Life. I don’t know when the last time was I had…Writing3 min readWriting3 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That·2 hours agoMember-onlyHow I Got the Ring of My DreamsMy proposal story — I love confetti. And glitter. And sprinkles. And twinkles. Call me a sucker for tiny, dancing beads of magic. My love life over the past 5 years has been dappled with glittering, twinkling joy, even in sorrow and through all pain and fear. When I saw Keeley Schroder’s prompt for…Relationships5 min readRelationships5 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That — The Gathering Table·15 hours agoMember-onlyChocolate Makes Your Life Feel Longer & HappierDark chocolate or white chocolate? ToT-ers have some serious opinions — “Hugs or kisses” is missing from this ToT challenge, but chocolate lovers all over Medium are letting their words fly about their chocolate preferences. BJ has chocolate preferences… But it’s not time for that yet. First, I’d like to take a moment to thank all of you who are reading…Chocolate7 min readChocolate7 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That·21 hours agoMember-onlyAll You Need is Love (and Crusty Bread)Modern-day stone soup — What is one odd talent you have? I have one and I think it’s very odd, indeed. Especially since I live in Texas. There’s a lot to love about living here, but it cramps the style of my odd talent something fierce. My odd talent is turning love into soup. …Love4 min readLove4 min read
Published in Bouncin’ and Behavin’ Blogs·1 day agoMember-onlyCould Coffee BE More Expensive?Drinking away my non-disposable income — On Friday, my partner and I ran out of coffee. It was horrible. Actual winter weather had graced Texas with a Texas-sized ice storm, stopping the UPS man from delivering our whole bean java on schedule. Thankfully, this isn’t a story about going coffeeless (too traumatic). Our coffee was delivered…Coffee3 min readCoffee3 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That·2 days agoMember-only50 Things That Will Brighten Your DayYou’ll find your smile here — What are 50 things you love? Just 50!? Okay, here goes… Stuffed animals — one of the two things I love getting for Valentine’s Day Flickering candles Petting dogs My dogs — they’re my kiddos The purring of cats and the scratchy feeling of their tongues The color green — and red, and black, and taupe…okay…Bjs This Or That3 min readBjs This Or That3 min read
Published in Breast Stories·2 days agoMember-onlySwimsuit Season — A Breast StoryMy girls love swimsuit season — Dallas is blanketed in ice, but do my breasts care? No. They saw bathing suits at Target and they are hungry for some Southern sun exposure. It’s not like I can talk them out of it, I mean, they are my breasts. …Breasts5 min readBreasts5 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That — The Gathering Table·2 days agoMember-onlyValentine’s Dinner: Apps or Zzerts?Choosing one over the other is NOT relationship friendly — ToT, on the other hand. ToT is absolutely relationship-friendly. Here at BJ’s This or That, we relate. And I don’t mean in a (sexual) way. Except for those of you that do. …Bjs This Or That7 min readBjs This Or That7 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That·3 days agoMember-onlyFebruary Writing Opportunities to Bust Your Writer’s BlockAny excuse to write is a good one, but these writing ops will have you screaming “MORE” — Uninspired? Check out these writing opportunities to get your creative juices flowing. Bet you can’t choose just one! Seasonal Finds (On Love) Non-love offerings further down BJ’s This or That Challenges (x3) Valentine’s Day Edition BJ’s This or That Challenge: Valentine’s Edition “L” is for the way you’ll love this challengemedium.comWriting3 min readWriting3 min read
Published in BJ’s This or That·4 days agoMember-onlyI Gave Up on Love and Here’s What HappenedI said goodbye to whiny, passion-driven, fairy-tale love and found a lover to last — When I was asked for my number by the man who is my partner today on the day I decided to take a break from online dating, I was hesitant. But then I thought, why does it matter? If I give him my number and he falls off the face…Relationships4 min readRelationships4 min read
