The Aspie World
3 min readDec 9, 2023

Navigating Social Events with Autism: A Sensory Survival Guide

Introduction:

Hey, everyone! Dan here from The Aspie World, and today I want to share my ultimate guide for surviving social events with autism. Whether it’s a holiday party, family gathering, or any other potentially triggering occasion, these tips will help you prepare, stay calm, and enjoy the experience. Welcome back to the ASP world, where I share my journey with autism and ADHD. If you’re passionate about empowering others and improving the lives of autistic individuals, hit that subscribe button and join me on this journey. Now, let’s dive into the autism sensory survival guide!

1. Plan and Prepare:

Preparation is key for navigating social events successfully. Create an ABC list — Plan A, Plan B, and Plan C — covering different scenarios. Whether it’s backup food, transportation options, or a quiet space, having a plan in place reduces anxiety and provides a sense of control.

2. Calming Techniques:

In the midst of crowded social events, maintaining calm can be challenging. Utilize calming techniques like deep breathing. Inhale, hold, and exhale five times. This simple practice can instantly help reduce anxiety and keep you grounded in overwhelming situations.

3. Dress for Comfort:

Prioritize comfort over societal expectations. Dress in a way that allows you to feel at ease, whether it’s wearing pajamas or opting for casual attire. Being comfortable in your clothing can significantly contribute to your overall well-being during the event.

4. Bring Headphones:

Headphones or earphones are invaluable tools for sensory regulation. Noise-canceling headphones, like Apple or Bose options, provide a sanctuary amidst the chaos of social events. Always remember to pack headphones, ensuring you have the option to retreat into a quieter, more manageable space.

5. Plan for Breaks:

Integrate breaks into your event plan. Whether it’s stepping outside for fresh air or finding a quiet room, taking short breaks allows for sensory decompression. Breaking up the event into manageable intervals helps prevent sensory overload.

6. Visual Schedule:

Create a visual schedule to understand and anticipate the flow of the event. Use emojis or GIFs to represent different activities, providing a visual representation of what to expect. A visual schedule enhances predictability and reduces anxiety associated with uncertainty.

7. Social Script:

Practice social scripts before the event to feel more confident in social interactions. Develop scripts for introductions, small talk, and farewells. Having a mental playbook for socializing helps navigate conversations smoothly and alleviates social anxiety.

8. Support Person:

Consider bringing a support person with you. Whether a friend, family member, or assistant, having someone you trust by your side provides comfort and assistance in navigating social situations. A support person can act as a buffer and offer support when needed.

9. Enjoy Yourself:

Amidst all the preparation and planning, don’t forget the most important tip — enjoy yourself! Focus on having fun, making connections, and savoring the experience. Remember, it’s your time to relax and enjoy life.

Conclusion:

There you have it — a comprehensive autism sensory survival guide for social events. These tips aim to empower you, making social gatherings more manageable and enjoyable. If you found this guide helpful, give it a thumbs up, share it on social media, and drop a comment sharing your thoughts. Your journey matters, and I’ll see you in the next video. Peace!