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The Severe ME Bedbound Activity Masterlist: Part 3

Sarah Stanton
Jul 10 · 6 min read

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Living with conditions like severe ME is hard. Gold standard health recommendations like sunshine and exercise simply don’t apply to us. And most of the articles out there suggesting activities for bedbound people assume a higher level of functionality than we generally have. With that in mind, here is a masterlist of activities pitched at a level severe ME patients can manage.

This part of the list is different in that it focuses on things you can do on your device. Ideally, of course, you wouldn’t use your device when you’re resting at all. But distractions are important, and you may as well have more options than scrolling endlessly through social media. The important thing to bear in mind is to choose activities within your capacity, pace, and be CAREFUL.

Thanks again to the ME/CFS communities on Facebook and Telegram for contributing to this list. It wouldn’t be half as big and rich without you.

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WITH A DEVICE ACTIVITIES:

Two great Android apps to recommend right off the bat: and . Depending on your phone, Precise Volume can artificially lower your lowest volume. You can also set the equalizer to make everything 15db quieter. Twilight lets you permanently lower the brightness and install a red filter on your screen. iOS users have Night Shift for the red filter, but I couldn’t find any equivalent to Precise Volume. Don’t forget a good ad blocker!

1. Engage in low energy creativity. Use a colouring app, a cross stitch app, a sketch app, anything that you can do fairly mindlessly but which gives you a sense of satisfaction.

2. Check in with your ME chat community or support group, if you have one. Get an ME pen pal! A list of ME support communities can be found on , and a list of MEAction Facebook groups is available , including a POC group .

3. Go exploring! Pick a location and Google images of it, go on or and take a virtual adventure. If you have/can tolerate VR, this would be a really great way to use it.

4. Take a virtual museum tour! Some virtual tours you could try:







has a wide variety of virtual tours, online collections and 360 degree videos.

5. Do some online window shopping! You don’t need to buy or even be looking to buy, just scroll through or or even and check out all the stuff on offer.

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6. Play mindless games. Only you know what is mindless for you. Games like (Android, iOS), (Android, iOS), or clicker games like (Android, iOS) work the best for me. You might prefer games like crosswords, Picross, jigsaw puzzles, Scrabble, or Sudoku, or one of the many match 3 games out there.

7. Put yourself in nature by watching a nature cam! as a great selection of nature cams, as does and the .

8. Sign petitions for ME or other causes. It only takes a second and it lets your voice be heard!

9. If you find speaking easier than typing, consider recording for or for ME patients who need audio versions of articles.

10. Teach yourself skills. Learn a language on , or take a free online course somewhere like . Be careful — this is a particularly easy one to overdo. Pitch it several steps simpler than you would have done when healthy.

11. Participate in micro-volunteering. You can try and practice your vocabulary, or help out a blind/visually impaired person with the app. lets you assist with a number of ongoing charity projects, while asks for help with research projects in the arts and sciences. is a great option for those with the cognitive capacity to scan satellite images.

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12. Explore the galaxy with or , or by zooming out really far on . Combine your love of astronomy with microvolunteering and help identify galaxies on or craters on the moon on .

13. Try writing about your daily life. I use the app for my diary, which allows me to track mood and symptoms at the same time. But the thing I love to write when I’m too sick to write anything else is haiku. Contrary to popular belief, haiku isn’t about the 5–7–5 structure, it’s about capturing a spontaneous moment in nature. Explore (season words) and incorporate them into your work, or just try and capture moments as and when you see them. Haiku are a great low-energy way to record your daily experience. Just a few little lines and you’re done!

14. Create a soothings box on your phone. Mine is in a folder on my Dropbox so I can access it anywhere. It includes images that make me laugh, poetry that makes me smile, heartwarming messages from friends and family, anything I can go to when I’m in a bad place and feel soothed. It’s a great little project to grow over time!

15. If it’s within your capacity, you can listen to podcasts, audiobooks, music or the radio. A lower-energy option is ASMR or white noise/nature sounds. Great sources of nature sounds are: , , (Android, iOS) and Relax Melodies (, ).

16. Use relaxation apps like (Android, iOS), (Android, iOS), and (Android, iOS)

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17. Watch videos on . Be very careful to pace yourself with this one.

18. Read articles or have them read to you. and are good apps to find and keep track of articles, and Pocket has a decent text-to-speech function if you have difficulties reading.

19. Relax with some trippy visuals using the Fraksl app (, ), app (Android), or Fluid Sim Free app (, )

20. Feeling lonely but don’t have anyone to chat to? Talk to a chatbot! Two well-known chatbots that aim to help you with your mental health are (Android, iOS) and (Android, iOS). Another well known bot is .

21. Check out one of the following fascinating timewasting websites, or go hunting for your own:

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22. Don’t forget to take a break from your phone and get some real rest! Helpful tools include , the (Android, iOS) app for blocking access to certain apps, and a Pomodoro Timer like (Android).

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Sarah Stanton

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Disabled writer. Neurodivergent hodgepodge. I got fifteen chronic illnesses so you don't have to.

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