Don’t tell others what you really want, It rarely happens
Disclaimer: This is how I personally feel. I was a believer in this concept. I ventured to the opposite path of this for some time and now am again back to believing this again after having some sad taste.
Well, based on a lot of personal experience, I find the title to be true. When you do the opposite, either you become self boasted and then loose the interest in doing that task or somehow the nature mends things and circumstances for you in bad ways if you are too skeptical of bitter jealous people (nazar lagana).
1st reason — Why we do anything we do? One of the major reasons is so that people can know this we are doing and we fell happy for self. (Self-Happiness in short). When you tell someone the stuff you are doing, they praise you and thus your desire is achieved. So your desire to get the main task perform is reduced and you would averagely give in. (Exceptions are always there but am talking average use cases here)
2nd reason — Our brain is one of the most complex systems ever made. How do you send a signal from brain to hand — by Neurons. Damn interesting to read. Our mythology also suggests how great people were in earlier yugs (Nuclear weapons in Mahabharata, Flying plane in Ramayana, Monkeys communicating with humans, Sanjay telling Dhritrashtra everything happening real time about 100+ km away and so on). So all this there were able to is because they could harness the power of brain. Our brain is the transmitter and receiver. It transmits our thoughts into the universe and universe manifests them (as in The secret — By Rhonda Bryne). So whatever you can think is do able and If you skeptical of other people thinking bad about you on jealousy, then you are sending some unwanted situation thoughts to the universe. It’s in hindi called Nazar lagana. [Yes, I am an IIT Graduate but yes still believe in this. Experiences cannot lie. Science is not just yet there to prove it]
So to get the best results, do your things and try to avoid talking it with negative vibes people! Or just don’t tell at all.
