I thought it very insightful and self aware to recognize that spiritual abuse is one of the stresses. I can say no matter the stress I am dealing with, that one, will be the worst and the one that can stop me in my tracks or disable me from functioning as I need to do. I feel exhausted just thinking about it. Going through some of that overwhelming stress stuff myself but I have no where the battle you have or difficulties involving the responsibility of another like you. You are a hero. Thoughts and prayers with you. Go WARRIOR!!