My desire to produce videos at rapid speed with 1-shot takes…
Have you heard of the saying, “1-min fame on stage; 10 years effort down off stage”?
Ever since I started; I’ve put in over 100+ hours of mastery training on my own. There’s over hundreds of videos that never got published.
They look weird, I look weird, I stumbled on my words -
No matter how many people tried to put me down;
No matter how many diss I received;
I realized if I wanted to share my important message with the world; to help couples heal back their relationships, so it doesn’t end up like my non-successful ones; and families to improve their connections, then my best hope was videos,
Every time I got dejected from critics I remind myself,
If you haven’t heard my story before, at the age of 28 my 7-year romance ended with the lady I thought I was gonna get married. My obsession with wealth for freedom consumed me and I neglected the relationship; it eventually cost me dearly and fell apart. In the first 90 days I was suicidal at multiple times of the day. My mother was busy working- our relationship was shaky and rocky, I only had my younger brother hang out with me every weekend when he book out from the army. No one else, just him.
He was there for me; just being there with me and doing everything I want to do. I looked forward to every weekend so I can have him to be with; someone who wouldn’t judge me for what I was going through in the heartbreak and just be there for me emotionally.
It was by far the toughest experience in my life I have to deal with, alone.
I had no friends, I didn’t socialize for 7 years. It was all work and money; chasing an illusion freedom
12-weeks later, I’m out of the pit-hole and found a higher purpose for my mission to live strong in life: to create a sense of belonging for Entrepreneurs in Singapore; an academy they can call home and build their network week after week; month after month.
Because me too, yearn for that sense of belonging when I just started my business; no one around me was able to guide me or mentor me on my business. Everyone around me is saying “business is too difficult” — I fell into depression when I picked up my phone and had no one to call for help. I stare blank at the phone realizing how lonely I was after the 7-year romance fell apart.
I swore I’d never had no person to call on my phone again. I will cherish and treasure every relationship. I will learnt how to build long lasting deep bonding relationships with people I meet and get mentors who’ve already accomplish the goals I want to achieve and show me the way; guide me every step of the way.
At first I relied on books and videos from Bob Proctor Tony Robbins Brendon Burchard — Live. Love. Matter. — my 3 biggest mentor in life to help me shape my thinking and habits to become a respected member of my community, and led me to meeting great people such as Jack HM Wong Melvin Soh who mentored me and introduced me to the world of events and facilitations. I was fortunate enough to be trained by a man named Marshall Thurber personally; who was the mentor who personally trained Jay Abraham T. Harv Eker, Robert Kiyosaki Robert G. Allen Mark Victor Hansen Tony Robbinsbecame who they are today. I was extremely lucky I got trained by the same mentor who trained the movers of the world today; with the accomplishments I desire to achieve one day.
Today I live a life not in sorrows over a failed relationship; but to pass on my knowledge and experience, success & failures to my students who were once in my shoes — helping them save 10–15 years of their learning curve in order to achieve success a lot faster and earlier.
I’m able to do all these because I found the mentors, and I found the right network to hang around in. I have advisors on my speed-dial I can make a quick-call with, and within 5 mins I find alignment, clarity and purpose.
This didn’t come easy. And it wasn’t cheap. I’ve spent almost $100,000 in seminars and courses in order to have this new group of great friends, network, and support.
If I ever give an advice to new entrepreneurs, it’ll be this: “Stop trying to rely on your own efforts. Never think you have all the answers. It’s stupid; its silly- it’s dumb. The day you think you have all the answers will be the beginning of your downfall”
Thanks for reading. I hope this serves you.