I notice also that even if I am not in the same grief- and rage-induced place as SoB is, that many Black people are. I cannot dispose of those feelings because they are part of my community. But neither should non-Black people try to dispose of those feelings because they are teaching you something about the world we live in. It can be hard to sit with pain and rage, but if we are to move forward with building a better world, we must be willing to reckon with the fact that this pain and rage exists.