Lola Phoenix
Aug 24, 2017 · 1 min read

Honestly, I wouldn’t always assume that there is necessarily someone waiting in the wings, especially as ‘open relationships’ are becoming more popular and more aware of it as a legitimate path to their life. I stumbled upon it myself through learning more about safer sex. People can find it through other paths.

I don’t necessarily think either that having someone ‘waiting in the wings’ as it were makes someone discovering polyamory is something they want to pursue as a less legitimate path than any other. Sometimes we don’t know what we’re interested in until an opportunity presents itself in our lives and that’s just sometimes how things go.

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    Lola is a non-binary (pronoun: they) queer future best selling sci-fi/fantasy novelist. All writing projects: http://about.me/lolaphoenix