The best ways to support me

Lola Phoenix
Mar 17, 2017 · 2 min read

So I have 4k followers now on Medium which just seems *unreal*. I wanted to thank everyone for following me and just remind you of all of the different writing projects I have out there and the best way to support me.

Become a patron — If you’d like to get a sneak peek of some of my articles, free copies of my zines and books, become a patron.

Subscribe to my column — With the help of a 10 year experienced relationship therapist, I respond to questions regarding non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships on a bimonthly basis.

Subscribe to my podcast — I’ve turned my column into a bi-weekly podcast which you can now subscribe too. Right now it’s on Libsyn, but you should be able to find it on places like Spotify soon!

Or, if you’d like, you can give me a one off donation via PayPal.

Writings on polyamory

Here are some of the things I’ve written on polyamory that have been the most popular.

Thirteen things I wish I’d learnt before choosing non-monogamy

Why I don’t identify as ‘poly’

9 ways toxic parenting impacted your non-monogamy

A relationship is not a skill

What anxiety taught me about non-monogamy

The hierarchy polyamorous people don’t talk enough about (about asexuality)

Compersion is not compulsory

Non-monogamy and fear

Why non-monogamy isn’t queer

9 strategies for counteracting toxic parenting in non-monogamy


I have a few of my fiction pieces online which you’re able to buy, read, or listen to.

The Visitors on Wattpad (complete)

Checkmate (Kindle book on Amazon)

‘Feelings Rehab’ Zine

Fan Fiction

I’ve got a few pieces of, you guessed it, Harry Potter Fanfiction because why the heck not? Check it out below.

Recuperare (complete)

The Bravest Man I Ever Knew (in progress)

Lola Phoenix

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Lola is a non-binary (pronoun: they) queer future best selling sci-fi/fantasy novelist. All writing projects: