I agree with every thing you say about “non-white,” but I think there are good arguments that each…
Bernadette Bosky

They’re not interchangable because they exist on completely different social planes. If POC want to make that argument, let POC make it. As a white person, drawing comparisons to racism is speaking to something we not only don’t experience but benefit from. The comparison is really not apt. And you’re just further proving why I’d much rather call myself “non-monogamous” over “poly” and why poly communities are dominated by white folks.