I left Medium a few years ago because of the restrictions of the platform so if you haven’t already, I definitely recommend checking out nonmonogamyhelp.com for all of my blogs and podcasts. But if you’re still here, to let you know, I have a book coming out in June 2022 which should help people new to non-monogamy or who are struggling with anxiety. Even if you’re not particularly anxious, the book still might be helpful and it’s now available for pre-order! It’s not yet on audiobook, but you can indicate an interest in that which I can pass to the publisher.

Is 18 months long enough to wait for someone to decide if polyamory is for them? Listen to the podcast on the new Non-Monogamy Help website.

CW: This question contains explicit sexual discussion. I love my husband, we met almost 20 years ago now. We met online on an Alternative Lifestyle website. He was listed as a submissive and I a switch. We are the best of friends and I love him dearly. We were engaged…

If a man says that all men want a harem of submissive, subservient women, should you be concerned? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Check out the Patreon for the discussion topic. Listen below or on Libsyn. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or, conversely, use our RSS feed. A full transcript of the podcast can be found here. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Use our affiliate link for 10% off your first month.

I identify as non monogamous, all my partners know that about me, and I feel very sure about this lifestyle for me. I’m currently closely dating a man who also claims that he is non monogamous, the last month we have been living with each other and I haven’t actively…

How worried should you be about STI risk if you are immunocompromised? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Listen below or on Libsyn. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or, conversely, use our RSS feed. A full transcript of the podcast can be found here. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Use our affiliate link for 10% off your first month.

CW: This week’s column discusses mentions of weight loss. Iv been with my boyfriend for nearly five years now and over the last year Iv put on some weight, iv always been a little chunky but now it’s become a real issue for him. …

What resources are available for someone who asks about dating a sex worker? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Listen below or on Libsyn. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or, conversely, use our RSS feed. A full transcript of the podcast can be found here. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Use our affiliate link for 10% off your first month.

I am a widower of 2 years, I was married for 31 years and the last 10 years I was a cuckold to my wife. In the last two years I have been listening to podcasts and reading blogs on the subject of cuckolding (sometime called “Hotwifing”) and one question…