Sweetie I could have written this (only my weight piled on as an adult after a road accident disabled me), all people see is the “stupid, fat cripple” they don’t see ME — I am glad you finally have someone listening to you, so just sending love and hugs.
A “funny” thing. Not very long after I began my career as a “pre-op ts call girl”, work became asexual for me. Hormone therapy kept my “thing” from doing anything at all.
They were still sticking their thing in my bottom, but KY, and acting was all they were getting.🙄
For me, the hardest part of my daughter coming out was her rejection of her given name. One of my friends told me that a name is like a gift. A lot of thought goes into choosing it and it is given with the best intentions. But sometimes the gift isn’t what the recipient will use. I gave my daughter her name in the hope that she could use it. I did my…