Dr. Mario Martinez
Aug 27, 2017 · 2 min read
Breakfast on the Lake by Vladimir Kush

Further Lessons on LoveSpeed and the Butterfly

Relationships offer opportunities to calibrate the LoveSpeed of the perching shoulder and the landing of the butterfly. In other words, we can either expand our horizons of joy with love or entrench our boundaries of deprivation with fear. But why would intelligent, good people want to obstruct their path to joy? The reason surfaces when we consider the implicate premises we bring to relationships: How can I grow with the novelty that…

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Dr. Mario Martinez

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Clinical neuropsychologist, author of The MindBody Code, The MindBody Self, and founder of biocognitive science. Visit his website at www.biocognitive.com

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