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50 Biggest Red Flags in Gay Relationships You Need to Know About
Alright, let’s get real for a second. We all know that dating can be tough, but dating as a gay man? That’s a whole different ball game. And let’s be honest, sometimes it can be hard to tell whether or not someone is right for you. That’s why I’m here to give you the tea on the 50 biggest red flags to look out for when dating a gay man. So grab your chai latte and settle in, because it’s about to get real.
He talks about his ex too much. We get it, we all have baggage. But if he can’t stop talking about his ex, it’s a sign that he’s not over them and probably not ready for a new relationship.
He’s always on his phone. Look, we all love social media, but if he can’t put down his phone for two seconds to have a conversation with you, it’s a red flag that he’s not interested in getting to know you.
He’s always late. Sure, we all run a little behind sometimes, but if he’s consistently late to every date, it’s a sign that he doesn’t respect your time.
He’s rude to service staff. If he’s rude to the waiter or bartender, it’s a red flag that he doesn’t have basic human decency.
He doesn’t listen to you. If he’s constantly interrupting you or not paying attention to what you’re saying, it’s a sign that he’s not interested in getting to know you.
He’s still in the closet. Look, I get it, coming out is hard. But if he’s still in the closet, it’s a red flag that he’s not ready to fully…
