Grindr Tribes Explained

Untangling the web of Grindr’s tribal culture: Your unofficial guide

Nathan Chen
6 min readOct 5, 2023
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Ah, Grindr — the digital playground where gay men can explore their dating and, let’s be honest, other interests with the touch of a button. Scroll down, scroll up, but hang on a minute. What are these so-called “tribes,” and how do they shape the queer dating scene? If you’re as bewildered as a hipster at a Walmart, then strap in, honey, because you’re in for a ride.

What Even Are Grindr Tribes?

First off, let’s talk basics. Grindr tribes are self-selected tags users can add to their profiles to make it easier (or more complicated, if you ask me) to find compatible matches. Think of it like choosing teams in gym class, but you’re the captain, and it’s up to you to decide how you want to play.

Tribes like Twink, Bear, Otter, Jock, Geek, and the mysterious Clean-Cut come with their own set of expectations and stereotypes. I’m not talking about the kind you learned in college sociology class, but the kind that’s been cooked up in the collective cauldron of gay culture.

Twinks: Not a Snack, But a Whole Meal

Okay, so let’s dive into the deep end with Twinks. Known for their youthful looks and slim physique, Twinks are like…

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Nathan Chen
Nathan Chen

Written by Nathan Chen

I'm Nathan Chen, a queer Asian writer advocating for LGBTQ+ issues, Asian representation, work life & mental health. Let's explore life's complexities together!