The Power of Saying “No”: How to Set Boundaries and Take Control of Your Life

Picture this: it’s Friday night, and your friends want to go out, but you’re exhausted from a long week of work. You’re torn between FOMO and the desperate need for some self-care. The little voice inside your head is screaming “say no,” but, as always, you end up tagging along. Sound familiar?

Nathan Chen
4 min readApr 23, 2023

Well, my friend, this is the story of my life. But it’s not just me. A lot of us find it difficult to say “no,” and it’s not because we love being a doormat. In this enlightening, educational, and helpful article, I’ll explore the power of saying “no” and how it can help us set boundaries and take control of our lives.

So, grab a cup of tea (or coffee, if you’re more of a caffeine-fiend), put your feet up, and let’s dive into this life-changing topic!

The Power of “No”

Have you ever noticed that whenever someone says “no,” it’s often followed by an apology or an explanation? It’s like we’re programmed to feel guilty for setting boundaries. But the thing is, we shouldn’t feel guilty for looking out for ourselves. Saying “no” is like a…

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Nathan Chen

I'm Nathan Chen, a queer Asian writer advocating for LGBTQ+ issues, Asian representation, work life & mental health. Let's explore life's complexities together!