How To Make A Girl Squirt

The Sexplorer
7 min readFeb 9, 2022

Unlike what pornography might have you think, squirting isn’t some super rare ability that only the most experienced porn stars possess. Any woman can squirt, either alone or with a partner’s help.

The trick is that squirting takes both mental and physical preparation. While that may seem daunting, the five steps outlined below will give you everything you need to know to bring your partner to a soaking wet climax.

What is Squirting?

In simplest terms, squirting is the forceful ejection of colorless, odorless fluids from the urethra prior to or during orgasm.

The gush of fluid comes from the urethra which leads many to believe it’s urine. But a recent analysis of the fluids had some interesting findings:

“Biochemically, the fluid emitted during orgasm showed all the parameters found in prostate plasma in contrast to the values measured in voided urine.”

What does this mean?

Squirting fluids contains prostate plasma, also known as Prostate-Specific Antigen (PSA). This is most commonly associated with the male prostate gland, though it’s also produced by the female Skene’s gland.

The Skene’s gland is located on either side of the urethra. The presence of PSA in the squirting fluid indicates the fluids come from the Skene’s gland even if they do pass through the bladder. So while squirting fluid may contain traces of urine, it’s not pure urine or even the majority.

Can Every Girl Squirt?

Just like every woman has the potential to orgasm, every woman has the potential to squirt. This ability comes more easily to some women than others, though.

The biggest hindrance for many women is they’re not in the right headspace.

Even more so than with climax, it takes a fully relaxed headspace in a comfortable environment to squirt. This means no distractions, no interruptions, and no inhibitions.

If your partner doesn’t currently squirt, it doesn’t mean she never will. But it will take time, patience, and understanding. If you aren’t prepared to provide all three, then this isn’t the article for you.

How to Make a Girl Squirt in 5 Steps

If you’re ready for an explosively good time, check out the steps below.

Step 1: Set the Mood

This step is as much about the physical mood as it’s about the mental and emotional. As mentioned above, your partner needs to be in a relaxed state of mind. This doesn’t happen automatically and it takes time and effort even before you get into the bedroom.

For some women, it’s easy enough to have a glass of wine and talk about her day. Let her unload all of her worries. Or perhaps a soak in a bubble bath with lavender bubble bath, candles, and soft music.

This part can take some time and it requires you to know your partner well.

When it’s time for the main event, there are things you can do in the bedroom to make it a “safe” space. These include:

  • Removing outside distractions
  • Turning on relaxing music
  • Lighting candles
  • Using an aromatherapy spray
  • Changing to clean bed linens

The key is to prevent any potential interruptions, whether they be outside or within. A clean, fresh environment with the right ambiance can make a world of difference when getting your partner in the mood.

Step 2: Have Fun with Foreplay

Now that the environment is set, it’s time to get her aroused. This requires both physical and mental stimulation. Here’s how.

Foreplay can start hours or even days before your session. A few subtle ways to start are dirty text messages, naughty photos, and descriptive love notes. If you’re able to see her in person, little caresses and looks throughout the day can get her thinking about future activities.

Once in the bedroom, even if you’ve been building the anticipation all day, you’re not ready for the main event just yet.

Now it’s time to take it even further. Long kisses, gentle caresses, ear nibbling, pillow talk, and even massage are all ways to get her into the right mindset. The time during foreplay will enable her to turn off all of her usual worries and focus on arousal and pleasure.

Step 3: Find the Right Position for Her

When it comes to climaxing, the right position will vary from woman to woman. However, squirting is more likely to occur in positions that stimulate both the g-spot and the clitoris at the same time.

The best sex positions for stimulating the g-spot and clitoris simultaneously are outlined below. Aside from those, you can also combine penetration and manual stimulation in any number of positions.

It’s most important for your partner to be completely comfortable. The more comfortable she feels in the position, the more likely she’ll be able to fully relax and let go. You can improve her comfortability in many ways, including with pillows, cushions, and wedges.

Step 4: Introduce Sex Toys

There’s no shame in bringing in a little bit of help. Think of sex toys as a tool to bring your partner the ultimate pleasure.

You have plenty of sex toys to choose from, though the best for squirting are g-spot vibrators. With the ability to control the intensity, speed, and even stimulation patterns, a g-spot vibrator can be an invaluable tool.

To spice it up further, use the g-spot vibrator while going down on your girl. In particular, focus on the clitoris but have fun exploring.

Other sex toys to consider include dildoes, bullet vibrators, and even anal plugs.

Step 5: Focus on the Journey, Not the Destination

If you’ve never brought your partner to a squirting orgasm before, then you may be nervous.

While squirting is fun for your partner, it’s not the only part of the experience that’s pleasurable for her. So instead of worrying about the grand finale, focus instead on the journey that will get you there.

It’s cliche, but the saying “stop to smell the roses” really does apply here. Take the time with your girl to genuinely enjoy the experience and consider it a way to get closer both physically and emotionally.

And if your partner doesn’t squirt? Well, that’s okay, too. What’s most important is that you both enjoyed the journey. There’s always another day to try again.

Top Tip: High-Quality Lubricants

If there’s one thing you don’t want to skimp on, it’s the lubricant. This is especially important if you’re trying to bring your partner to squirt for the first time. Why? Because the right lubricants can make g-spot and clitoral stimulation feel 100x more intense.

So what makes a good lubricant stand out? When buying lubricant, you want to consider viscosity, longevity, and ease of use.

You also want to pick the right lubricant for your needs. There are water-based, oil-based, silicone, and mixed lubricants. There are pros and cons to each. If using sex toys, then we recommend a water-based lubricant as these can be used safely with metal, glass, and silicone sex toys.

NOTE: Water-based and silicone lubricants are the only lubricants compatible with condoms. If you use oil-based or mixed lubricants, there is a risk of breakage.

The Best Positions for Squirting

While women can squirt in many different positions, there are some that are more conducive to it than others. The four positions below, as well as their variations, are some of the best available for g-spot stimulation, climax, and squirting.

Doggy Style

If deep penetration is what your partner needs to climax, then doggy style is the position to be in.

How to Do It:

Have your partner kneel on her hands and knees while you kneel between her legs. You’ll then enter her from behind. You can hold her hips while you thrust into her.


Instead of kneeling, stand with your feet outside of her knees and crouch down to enter her. This takes a considerable amount of knee and hip strength but it gives you incredible leverage for deep thrusts.


An often overlooked position, the missionary can be particularly helpful for getting your partner to squirt. After all, it allows for both g-spot and clitoral stimulation.

How to Do It:

Have your partner lie flat on her back. Place your knees on either side of her legs and use your arms to hold yourself up once you’ve entered her.


Using a wedge pillow or cushion, adjust the angle of your partner’s hips. This will control penetration depth. You can also have your partner experiment with her leg placement (e.g. closer together, open and wrapped around your hips, etc.).

Face-to-Face Spoon

While the spoon is a fun position, it doesn’t allow for hands-free clitoral stimulation. This face-to-face variation of the spoon presses the base of your shaft against her clitoris while also allowing for penile stimulation of the g-spot for double the fun.

How to Do It:

Both of you lie on your sides facing each other. Have her raise one of her legs to allow you to enter. She can then close her legs.


Instead of your partner closing her legs after insertion, have her draw her leg close to her torso. This will allow for deeper penetration but it may reduce friction on the clitoris.

Reverse Cowgirl

This simple variation of the traditional Cowgirl position puts your partner in control.

How to Do It:

Lie flat on your back and have your woman straddle your hips while facing your feet. With her knees bent behind her, she can settle in and start riding you.


Instead of her knees bent and tucked behind her, have her instead stand on her feet and straddle your hips while in the squat position. She can then mount you and ride you while using her feet for greater leverage.


If your woman has never squirted before, the chances are her partners have never tried. While some women are more resistant to squirting than others, it’s possible to make any woman squirt with the right attention and time.

Fortunately for you, we’ve taken all of the guesswork out of getting her to squirt. So if you want to have your partner squirting in the midst of an earth-shattering orgasm, then use the above five steps as your guide.