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Charting Your Career Course: From Setbacks to Success

3 min readFeb 20, 2024

Believe it or not, I have had a few setbacks and disappointments when it comes to work, however, I once found myself in a situation where I aimed to expand my role at a previous job. Already exceeding expectations, I saw an opportunity for a different position that perfectly matched my skill set. After engaging in weeks of interviews, discussions with my superiors, and making it to the final selection stage, I was ultimately passed over for the role which was then handed over to someone who had no genuine interest in it.

While such a scenario might leave many feeling disheartened today I want to approach it from a different perspective — one of resilience, self-awareness, and strategic growth. Initially, I felt heartbroken and frustrated, why would management overlook my consistent dedication to the organization? Why would they pass over the role to someone else who didn’t even apply for it? However, rather than dwelling on my disappointment, I chose to continue excelling in my role and map out a plan to better understand myself, sharpen my skills, and position myself for the career growth I deserved.

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How do you guide your career journey?

The first step toward meaningful career development is self-understanding. This involves recognizing your values, passions, strengths, and limitations. It’s vital to assess how your career aspirations align with your values and long-term objectives. Through introspection, you can illuminate your path, making decisions that resonate with your authentic self, rather than succumbing to external pressures or fleeting opportunities.

Identifying and refining your skills are also essential aspects of career growth. My decision to persist despite setbacks underscores the importance of acknowledging and leveraging one’s skill set. Skills serve not only as tools for task execution but also as the cornerstones of your career identity. Cultivating a diverse skill set — encompassing both technical competencies specific to your field and soft skills like communication, leadership, and problem-solving — significantly enhances your adaptability and appeal to prospective employers.

Once you’ve gained clarity about your strengths and capabilities, the next step is positioning yourself for growth. Here are some strategies I’ve employed:

  1. Embrace Continuous Learning: Keep pace with industry trends, technologies, and best practices. Demonstrating a commitment to personal and professional development through ongoing learning is essential.
  2. Cultivate Your Network: Networking goes beyond job hunting; it’s about nurturing relationships that offer support, mentorship, and collaboration opportunities. A robust network can provide insights and openings not immediately apparent.
  3. Seek Feedback: Constructive feedback is invaluable for growth, offering insights into areas of strength and improvement opportunities. Approach feedback with openness and a dedication to self-improvement. In my case, my quiet demeanor in meetings was mistaken as my lack of strategic thinking.
  4. Document Your Achievements: Maintain a record of your successes, challenges overcome, and skills acquired. This not only bolsters confidence but also prepares you for future opportunities and discussions about your career trajectory.
  5. Seize Opportunities: Sometimes, opportunities must be actively pursued. Identify gaps or needs within your organization or industry and propose solutions. Volunteer for new projects, demonstrate initiative and remain proactive.
  6. Maintain a Positive Attitude: A positive, resilient mindset can be a significant asset. It helps navigate setbacks and sustains momentum toward your objectives, fostering an environment conducive to growth.

Remember that career development isn’t solely about climbing the corporate ladder. It’s about crafting a unique journey filled with learning, setbacks, challenges, and triumphs. By cultivating self-awareness, honing your skills, and strategically positioning yourself, you can navigate your career path with confidence and purpose.

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Sheila Ojei
Sheila Ojei

Written by Sheila Ojei

Storyteller + Partnerships and Communications Expert = Corporate Creative. Can be found on www.sheilaojei.com.

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