The WifeinHeart AffairsLet’s Talk About Micro-Cheating.I consider myself somewhat of an expert on cheating. I was in an unfaithful marriage for many years, where I was the one cheated on, and…4h ago14h ago1
The WifeinILLUMINATIONRecreating a Nuclear Family Isn’t the Gold Standard After DivorceI’ve been on enough first dates to know that people in their 40s are usually looking for one of two things after divorce. Someone to have…1d ago91d ago9
The WifeinILLUMINATIONI Don’t Care If His Friends And Family Like Me.A few months ago, I met my partner’s Dad.Jul 203Jul 203
The WifeinILLUMINATIONCan we normalise having multiple great loves in a lifetime?I’ve been married and divorced twice. Because of this, some might say I have no business making a living writing about relationships. I’m…Jul 610Jul 610
The WifeinHeart AffairsWhy I Choose To Be Sad (Sometimes)Today is my daughter’s 7th birthday. I love her so much. She is, of course, a young child finding her place in the world, which brings…Jul 5Jul 5
The WifeinILLUMINATIONDo you need to ‘do the work’ or are you in a relationship with an asshole?Once upon a time, I was married to an asshole.Jul 45Jul 45
The WifeinILLUMINATIONDating and Weaponised IncompetenceWeaponised incompetence, or strategic incompetence, is a behaviour where someone deliberately underperforms tasks or pretends to be…Jul 16Jul 16
The WifeinILLUMINATIONGen X Women and Millenial Men: The New Perfect Match?I’ll be honest. I got a pretty big buzz from the film ‘The Idea of You’. If you’re unfamiliar, this is the story of Solène, a 40-year-old…Jun 231Jun 231
The WifeinHeart AffairsA Love Letter To My Cheating Ex-HusbandI didn’t think this day would come. Ever.Jun 2224Jun 2224
The WifeinHeart AffairsThe Only Person Responsible For How You Feel Is YouOne of my favorite quotes is from Maya Angelou.Jun 95Jun 95