Third Act
Third Act
Nov 7 · 1 min read

Recently my ex hurt me so bad, it shocked me out of where I was. I ended up walking down a street, crying, and then saying “but I love you”. A switch then flipped. It is not to say all my feelings are processed, it is not to say I won’t feel every phase of grief, but it seemed like a major milestone. Since then I have been mostly firm with her, without bringing up the past or being emotional. The relationship has changed, and I feel less need to care what she thinks or to explain my perspective. It had been an exhausting waste of time, but now, I am headed in the direction of a place where I care less — all because I was able to say our loud “I love you” and then start the process of letting go.

Third Act

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Third Act

Awakening, discovering who I am, reinventing myself. Childhood, marriage, and now post-separation/divorce. It is my third act. My best act so far.