Tom TalksWhy Don’t Asians Care Much About Politics?This past week the results from the Iowa caucus came in with Ted Cruz & Hilary Clinton barely edging Donald Trump & Bernie Sanders…Feb 3, 2016Feb 3, 2016
Tom TalksWhat Changes After Having Kids? EverythingAfter my son Jude was born, people I know often ask me what it’s like to be a new dad. I think a part of it has to do with who I am. I was…Jan 20, 2016Jan 20, 2016
Tom TalksWhy You Should Consider Leaving Your Small, Dying ChurchIt happens too often. A college student is struggling spiritually because she’s struggling with her church. There’s no pastor — though…Dec 7, 2015Dec 7, 2015
Tom TalksChristians Need to Stop Taking Dating So SeriouslyI remember a few weeks ago I met with a member of our church who wanted to grab coffee & “catch up.” I knew there was probably something…Nov 23, 2015Nov 23, 2015
Tom TalksWhy Local Church College Ministries Usually SuckLast time I wrote about the importance of collegians & how local churches (esp. Asian Americans) should really start prioritizing their…Nov 9, 2015Nov 9, 2015
Tom TalksWhy Asian American Churches Should Pay More Attention to Their College MinistriesIf you go on any church website, there’s often a section that says “community” that’ll show you the different types of life ministries they…Oct 26, 2015Oct 26, 2015
Tom TalksI Love the Denominational Diversity Within ChristianityBaptists. Presbyterians. Methodists. Pentecostals. Wesleyans. Lutherans. These are just a handful of the different Christian denominations…Oct 5, 2015Oct 5, 2015
Tom TalksThe Longing of Guys With Only Girl FriendsLast week I gave my observations about girls who tend to have only guy friends. But lest you think this is only a female issue, I’m now…Sep 28, 2015Sep 28, 2015
Tom TalksThe Insecurity of Girls With Only Guy FriendsEver meet that girl who seems to only have guy friends? I’m sure you have. She’s that girl whose Facebook pictures alway has her surrounded…Sep 21, 2015Sep 21, 2015
Tom TalksHow the Korean Church Narrative is ChangingLast week I wrote about the typical Korean church story where I recounted a common experience most of us had in Korean churches. And the…Sep 7, 2015Sep 7, 2015