Love isn’t going to fix us
Kris Gage

The way I see things now from experience, is that all love can do is “add” to our already inner state of happiness (and self-love, kinda the same I think).

It cannot create, just add.

If we don’t have an inner locus of self-love, self-created happiness, no love from another person will ever be enough to fill that void. It just will torture both parties, whether they are aware of it at the time or not.