Maybe a lot of things you said are true and many people are using religious rules to control us, but sadly allah doesn’t approve gay marriage or love between two men or two women, I’m not gay but I know someone who is, and I don’t think he is bad or disobeying god, I feel sorry for him because his religion forbidden him from being gay, from being who he really is, this written in qu’ran. The idea of living here to sacrifice a lot of things for a bigger purpose, for heaven.