It’s remarkable how many people said this to me. It’s so sad that people are less comfortable trusting your judgement than they are suggesting you stay in something that isn’t healthy. I can’t help but think often times people ask for this more to retain the larger reality you/your ex were part of (friend groups = a healthy social life; family = a happy family, etc), then to reserve your union. Change is scary for everyone but kudos to you for making the brave choice.

    So Much Bigger Than Me

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    Reshma Saujani said it best: be brave not perfect. Sharing my life journey to help inspire others to be brave in their lives. Not perfect.

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