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The Fight

When the leader of the Free World Reveals himself to be a comic book villian Where are those who would Don cape and mask To fight against…

Nov 7, 2024

The Fight

Nov 7, 2024

“Am I Enough Yet?”: Trans Insecurities and the Exhausting Art of Being Seen

In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, this piece is for everyone who’s ever lived between fear and authenticity — and for those…

3d ago

“Am I Enough Yet?”: Trans Insecurities and the Exhausting Art of Being Seen

3d ago

Gender, Kink, and the Freedom to Be Too Much

Or: Why Talking About Pronouns in the Dungeon Might Just Save the World

Oct 22

Gender, Kink, and the Freedom to Be Too Much

Oct 22

A Year of Talking to the Void (and Sometimes It Talks Back)

A reflection on what a year of writing taught me about voice, audience, patience, and the strange satisfaction of earning $2.05 for my…

Oct 8

A Year of Talking to the Void (and Sometimes It Talks Back)

Oct 8

Trans Joy: Thriving, Not Just Surviving

Defiant. Joyful. Still Here.

Oct 3

Trans Joy: Thriving, Not Just Surviving

Oct 3

Petticoat Punishment: Shame, Lace, and the Long, Frilly Shadow

Authors Note: In this essay, I reference the character of “Jane Thompson,” as developed in the Seasons of Change universe originated by…

Sep 30

Petticoat Punishment: Shame, Lace, and the Long, Frilly Shadow

Sep 30

Under the Gun: Trans Lives in the Shadow of Political Violence

⚠️ Trigger Warning: This article discusses political violence, transphobia, state repression, and scenarios of harm that may be distressing…

Sep 25

Under the Gun: Trans Lives in the Shadow of Political Violence

Sep 25

Switchy Bitches: Switching as power, play, and a path to knowing yourself.

In kink and BDSM, people love their categories. Tops. Bottoms. Doms. Subs. Sadists. Masochists. People who alphabetize their rope and…

Sep 22

Switchy Bitches: Switching as power, play, and a path to knowing yourself.

Sep 22

The New Asylums: How the Far Right Wants to Erase Trans People — And Why They’ll Fail

Why institutionalizing transgender people is unscientific, unethical, and unconstitutional.

Sep 17

The New Asylums: How the Far Right Wants to Erase Trans People — And Why They’ll Fail

Sep 17

Ode to Her Embrace

Her touch is fire, yet tender flame, that warms my soul and speaks my name. It courses deep through flesh and bone, and claims me…

Sep 9

Ode to Her Embrace

Sep 9

Tifany

Tifany

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I am a whole lotta things: Transgender, Polyam, Pansexual, member of Leather, BDSM, and Kink communities, a wandering bard with strong opinions and a keyboard.

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