I’m a dad of two, 26 & 31. Here is what is in my head.
Gerard Mclean

I never thought about it from that way, Gerard Mclean. And I guess it’s the Chinese culture I grew up with that clouded me from actually asking my dad what he really wants.

Thank you Gerard — this is probably the most insightful response I’ve read. And just wanted to say, your kids are very lucky to have you as a strong, wise father. I’m sure you have much more great things to say. :)