Heidi thanks for writing this you made me realize that there is a lot of cases of abuse and just insecurities because we are women but we shouldn't let that keep us from being who we really are. We need to be able to show the world that we can actually be who we want to be regardless of our past. We shouldn't be afraid to stand up for ourselves. I know we are always constantly told boys will be boys but that still doesn't give them the right to mistreat us. I really liked how you included examples of men that actually want to make a change. Not all men are the same. we need to find a way to make society better for our future generation. thank you so much for providing solutions to the problem.