Did you take the metaphorical look in the mirror I suggested. These last two responses only emphasized your need for some introspection.
Check out your motivations, I was not bullying you I was trying to save you.
Use those to evaluate your actions but as guiding principles I find the following more helpful
You may not need to reform, I may have been reading you all wrong but what harm is there in taking an introspective look in the mirror? That you responded with Wrath does seem to confirm that I might not be completely off base.
Quite often the first response is Denial but that is a different list.