Thank you for writing about your pain. After 9 years of denial I wrote about mine on a business blog of mine. It was so freeing.
Then people started to come to me in private, asking me if they should disclose. I was hoping for this, that maybe I could help others feel less lonely with my story. But it also helped me feel more useful than I had in a long time. I wish thus for you.
It sucks to have you as a member of this club. But you are welcomed with gentle hugs by spoonies everywhere.