People’s behavior leads to patterns..Patterns that are easy to detect if you just pay attention to them. People are predictale
Ofcourse a coke addict is gonna keep snorting ( despite the physical trauma he inflicts on himself or the emotional trauma it takes out on his loved ones)he loves the coke more than he loves you
… the guy that cheats is most likely to cheat on you..
These people can’t be helped/saved because they are caught up in this pattern and frankly enjoy being there
if you reread your own story, you’ll see that your stuck in a constant pattern of behavior.. You have to realize the pattern if you wish to escape from it.
Your an enabler. I think you still blame yourself for not doing enough for your mother and this has carried over to these men