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I’ve got one simple explanation: Men don’t grow up in a culture that forces them to objectify themselves. A 2004 study in the journal Sex Roles concluded that “mere exposure to objectifying media can play…

…n reason to fuck would be obvious (you’re both horny), there are other motives here as well — like, maybe you are looking for something ongoing, but don’t want to commit to more dates with someone who just doesn’t sync up with you in bed.

“I’ve done it on my first date a few times, but I’ve noticed that boys [were] subtly more shitty and seem to respect me less or take me less seriously as a potential partner when I did,” says Kayla, a 21-year-old student in Austin. “So I don’t do it anymore unless I know for sure tha…