I know it’s hard to figure yourself out. And I don’t think anyone can really help you with that. Sure, some people might be able to tell you a thing or two. But you’d still have to go through all the trial and error.
Here’s what I do know. Having scars, having things that we remember that hurt us, that doesn’t make us broken. Not being able to forgive doesn’t make us evil. Not being able to forget doesn’t make us helpless.