When we get hurt by other people it is never about other people. It is always about us. We have the capacity to choose how we react and where we go from that moment.
We have to work on ourselves not on other people. And that is the way to go.
“If I said something wrong,” Jesus replied, “testify as to what is wrong. But if I spoke the truth, why did you strike me?”
We have to stand for ourselves. Not turn the other cheek as a rule.