If You give up who You are … You won.t Be truly happy. I.ve been in many relationships that demanded me to change my way of being. In the end it’s not worth it. For me at least. Loosing myself for the sake of another it’s not healthy. Because when she met you she connected with the real you. After that we as men … change our behavior in order to please our partner and we lose our identity on the way. Then one morning she comes to us and says…. You are not the man you used to be anymore. If you are happy with that go ahead. It’s great but if you aren’t .. try to let her know.