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Chris James

Chris James

Freedom in Anxiety

What does it mean to be free — and sane — in an insane world?

Jun 21, 2020

Freedom in Anxiety

Jun 21, 2020

Chris James

Choose Monogamy… or Don’t

If you want to feel like you love your partner and aren’t just stuck with them, choose them.

Mar 13, 2019

Choose Monogamy… or Don’t

Mar 13, 2019

Chris James

Constrained and Unconstrained Love

How can you fit both freedom and constraint into healthy love?

Feb 8, 2019

Constrained and Unconstrained Love

Feb 8, 2019

Chris James

Is Your Love Life a (Greek) Tragedy?

If your romances tend to look more like Romeo and Juliet than Sleepless in Seattle, Aristotle had insights into rewriting the script.

Jan 4, 2019

Is Your Love Life a (Greek) Tragedy?

Jan 4, 2019

Chris James

Have Hope. People Change.

Condemning those who disagree with you as ‘irredeemable’ makes them likely to hold fast. Keep hope and keep it civil to make real change.

Nov 19, 2018

Have Hope. People Change.

Nov 19, 2018

Chris James

Sokal Squared: A Field in Jeopardy

“Sokal Squared” exposed a serious lapse in the publishing standards of “grievance studies.” Is it valid, and if so, what do we do next?

Nov 8, 2018

Sokal Squared: A Field in Jeopardy

Nov 8, 2018

Chris James

The Best Sex I Never Had

Looking back at an old story from my teen years has taught me I wasn’t the hero. And in sex, things aren’t always simple.

Oct 24, 2018

The Best Sex I Never Had

Oct 24, 2018

Chris James

Breaking Out of the Love Game

The rules behind the Game of Love are stacked against your happiness and satisfaction, but there‘s a better way.

Oct 6, 2018

Breaking Out of the Love Game

Oct 6, 2018

Chris James

Kink and Christianity

Almost Everything I Need To Know About Being Kinky… I Learned in Chapel

Sep 28, 2018

Kink and Christianity

Sep 28, 2018

Chris James

Letters from the Kinkdom

Sexual pioneers are learning and passing lessons key to our cultural future. Are we ready to listen?

Sep 21, 2018

Letters from the Kinkdom

Sep 21, 2018

Chris James

Chris James

Kinky poly weightlifter with a focus on alternative sexuality and culture topics. Find me on Twitter @KinkThinkLift

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