Travis paakkiMoving On After Cheating, When They Never Found OutYou’ve committed the perfect crime. Or have you? Forever is a very long time.Aug 75Aug 75
Travis paakkiBecoming a Mid-Thirties WidowerHow many times was I told that someone didn’t want to raise my daughters and have the egg donor get the Mother’s Day card and the call on…Jul 101Jul 101
Travis paakkiMy Narcissist Scapegoated MeIf she wasn’t such a manipulative jerk, it was actually kind of impressive.Jun 182Jun 182
Travis paakkiMy ‘Single Dad’ MentorWhen I was 24, my fiancée took a trip to Texas to meet her father. When she returned, she confessed her affair but said she wanted to work…Jun 12Jun 12
Travis paakkiThe Long Kiss GoodnightIn some alternate universe, there is a version of me that likely wanders the house I shared with my Ex. Brooding. Dying just a bit more…Jun 6Jun 6
Travis paakkiCrowdfunding, Cash, and Industrial-Scale FraudKickstarter and Indiegogo generate revenue measured in the millions, yet you can’t sue them when projects fail to deliver.Jun 6Jun 6
Travis paakkiYou Might Not Want To Date MeSince leaving my nightmare 11-year-long relationship, I have had a chance to reconnect with some very dear friends. One of them reminded me…May 23May 23
Travis paakkiHow to Use AI, Spare Parts, and Benign Intellectual Curiosity to End an Awful RelationshipDid I just have the world’s first divorce informed by AI? Oh, and (silver lining) I learned a new job skill.Apr 17Apr 17
Travis paakkiCheaterOne of the symptoms of narcissistic abuse survivors is a tendency to excuse the narcissist. This drive becomes so intense that there is a…Mar 14Mar 14