The catastrophe is so consistently thorough in my history book, that I now tend to walk off at first whiff of disregard. I’ve made exceptions, but that boundary has quickly become one of my steadiest.
And sometimes people are just happy for you to come to them, because in a different environment the chemistry may not be the same?
I still miss my friends — actually they are my family, I just thought we were friends too, but you know, the unbalanced weightiness made me fall off the scale and say ‘no more’. Not only was I travelling and bearing the costs, but I was giving extra on top, you know, cos I’m a generous gal, and totally not trying to buy a place in their affections at all. Much. Bad on me. #bemoreawarestoopid