A Conversation on Modern Myths

A conversation between Travis Hollingsworth (founder, Norn) and Aida de la Cruz (creative producer, Norn Berlin)

A conversation dinner on ‘Modern Mythology’ at Norn Berlin

What mythical creatures did you believe in as a child?

Aida

When I was a child, I believed in angels. I thought we all had a guardian angel and I would talk to mine, and sometimes pull out an extra chair for her to sit beside me. I guess some people call that an imaginary friend. I had an imaginary angel! Mine would look out for me and I was happy that I had my very own one. Now we have apps that let you ‘rent an angel’ for the evening, but it doesn’t compare.

What is the most beautiful myth you’ve ever heard?

Travis

For me, the American dream is a beautiful myth because it implies the possibilities that can be unlocked if you take ownership of your path. Stories swirl of who makes it and who doesn’t, and promises are made that you too can have your dream if you work hard. Its beauty lies in the freedom to create a life for yourself, no matter what you look like or where you come from.

Both of my parents were entrepreneurs. My mother ran an insurance firm and my father had a trucking business. During family meals, we explored their daily quest towards this unspoken ideal through the highs and lows of running a business. This folklore somehow explained things, captivated me and presented an unfettered freedom.

Aida

I always liked the myth of Narcissus. It packs a powerful cautionary tale about self-indulgence. When I was six years old, our family had a little pet duck. We put a mirror next to his bed so that he wouldn’t feel lonely. He loved it so much that we named him Narciso. That’s how my dad introduced my sisters and me to the myth of Narcissus.

Conversation dinner on ‘Modern Mythology’ at Norn Berlin

What is the purpose of myth in society?

Travis

Society uses myths, parables and symbolism to influence our behaviour.

The story of Hänsel and Gretel discouraged German children from venturing out into the forest alone. The problem is that myths can impose values that are not longer relevant.

Aida

Myths can also impact how we view the world. Growing up in Mexico, I have a closer relationship with death and the dead than most of my friends in Germany. In many instances, I’m unable to talk about death with people from other cultural backgrounds. They seem to be afraid of discussing death. They just avoid mentioning it altogether. I see death and life as two sides of the same coin.

We all are given this coin and carry it with us throughout our existence. Whether we acknowledge the other side or not is irrelevant. This is why I keep a little porcelain Mexican skull above my bed. It’s a reminder to take every moment and to enjoy life, before my coin turns…

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Travis Hollingsworth

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Founder of Norn, a space for expansive questions and thoughtful conversations to unfold in real life (norn.co)

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