
Alyssa’s Second Lung Transplant
The morning of Wednesday, May 18th, my sister Alyssa was officially listed as a candidate for a second double lung transplant on the UNOS (United Network of Organ Sharing) network.
The evening of Wednesday, June 1st — exactly 2 weeks later––we received the call that they were preparing the lungs for Alyssa and that we needed to be down there as soon as possible.
The morning of Thursday, June 2nd at 10:50am, Alyssa entered surgery. She would finish at 6:20pm, exactly 7 and a half hours later.

It’s important for me to also note that a few hours after Alyssa entered surgery, I received a picture from one of my best friends Alec. He sent me a picture of his tattoo that he happened to have scheduled on June 2nd at noon. The tattoo was in honor of Alyssa and I. It’s a rose that says ‘Just Breathe’ above it. Alyssa will be so excited when she gets a chance to see it.
I can’t even begin to imagine the rollercoaster of emotions Alyssa went through over those few weeks and the previous months. But as a family, it’s difficult, but possible, to explain how we felt.
Alyssa began her downhill slide, which would turn out to be Bronchiolits Obliterans Syndrome (BOS or more commonly called chronic rejection), back in November. She was getting short of breath a bit more often and taking a bit more time to recover. We didn’t think it was something too serious but as the next few months passed, with each monthly appointment, her PFTs dropped more and more, with the rate seeming to increase. In February, after all other options had been exhausted––chronic rejection is aggressive and there isn’t time to spare––she tried a nasty drug called campath. The list of potential side effects is longer than the IRS tax code. As we all know, it didn’t work.

Which leads us to now. The last month, in hindsight, has moved at a breakneck pace. A month ago, I finished my finals. A few days after that, I had my commencement and Alyssa was going through final evaluations to be listed. The next week, we met Dr. Shafii, her surgeon, who wanted to meet Alyssa to first assess her support system and mindset before going through with the retransplant. That meeting, we were disappointed. We thought she was going to be officially listed on that day, which was Thursday, May 12th. Unfortunately, they had to have one more meeting to discuss her as a candidate. We would receive the go-ahead that she was listed less than a week later, on Wednesday, May 18th. The next couple days were hectic, but exciting. We had a ton of family come in for the CF walk, which also happened to be on the same day as Alyssa’s 3 year lung-a-versary. We were so overwhelmed with all the love and support on the day of the walk, we were holding out hope that we’d get the call that day. Sure enough, we didn’t and the next week went by with nothing extraordinary happening.
Then Addie came in on Tuesday, May 31st. After I met Addie that evening, her and Alyssa were sitting on the couch watching something and laughing and as I walked into the other room, I said to Addie, “You better not unpack! You’ll need your bag for when Alyssa gets the call.” Of course I held out hope that would be the case, but I wasn’t exactly expecting it. 24 hours later, we were on our way to the hospital for Alyssa to begin being prepped.

To say Alyssa was in good spirits throughout the night before the surgery is a vast underrepresentation of how incredibly inspiring she was. Alyssa was happy, relieved, excited, laid-back, and easy-going with a small hint of nervousness. I was blown away. Even with my history of surgeries and being at hospitals as much as I have, I couldn’t even fathom being prepped for a surgery where they would literally remove the breathing vessels out of my chest to place another pair in. Clearly the first time around, I wasn’t blown away by the sheer magnitude of how amazing human potential has reached the point where they can literally trade organs between two individuals. We have the utmost gratitude for Alyssa’s two donor families and the doctors that have treated her over the years at Methodist and UK. We will never be able to fully thank them for taking care of Alyssa.
I’ve written previously about the importance of bracing the bad with the good and also how it’s vital and selfless to become an organ donor. But this isn’t about that. This post is about two things. One, Alyssa, my sister, who has been a relentless and persistent trooper for the last 27.5 years. And two, why it’s so damn important that we don’t stop appreciating our lives everyday. I know everyone has heard that we’ve all been dealt our own hands and that we have to take life in stride. But it’s easy to realize the beauty of the world and our lives when there’s a crisis. Our family has seen massive support over the last few years, but personally, I know that whenever I am feeling really, really inspired right after being emotionally compromised when Alyssa is sick or when I’ve performed poorly in school or something, I tell myself how I’m going to live everyday to the best of my ability. Then, life happens and I fall back into the grind. I start worrying about menial, pointless things. We have to genuinely make the most out the situations where it causes us to take a step back and love life. We need to make those changes immediately.
For me, after seeing how Alyssa was genuinely happy and grateful to her donors and another renewed chance at life, I vow to make an effort every single day to be the best, happiest, most generous, and motivated person I can be. Maybe more importantly, it’s a top priority of mine to not let any day be wasted with being stressed about things out of my control or, worse, things that don’t really matter.
I can’t wait to see Alyssa when she’s less sedated and tell her all the how inspiring she is. Without Alyssa, I wouldn’t be the person I am today, and I will never be able to thank her enough for being such an important person in my life. I’m sure the people in the photo below would agree.

Dum Spiro Spero — While I breathe, I hope.
TL