I don’t know why it became so terrible to let your kid have it sometimes. Don’t get me wrong, you can’t take it to 11 every time they do something you do not like, but every once in a while its not bad to get their attention in a big way. I do think some follow up afterwards when things have calmed down is a good idea. Just to let them know they are still loved and that everything will be just fine. Kids are too coddled today. The world is a harsh place and some tough love can be a good thing.