My heart breaks for you, your partner and your children! I know the hurt, pain and fear you speak, as my home was broken into many years ago. I was angry, hurt and fearful the thief would come back! Your writing is wonderfully enlightening. I wish I could have felt as you and not the anger and fear I had so many years ago! May you all find much needed happiness in your new home! I am still living in the home that was broken into and the fear has finally left!